- $49
The Tough Love Course: A Guide to Resilient Relationships
Get the Support You Need to Build a Lasting Marriage.
You’re probably here because you’re tired of…
Avoiding conflict because you don’t know what to say
Thinking sex or romance will fix everything
Trying to “win” arguments instead of connecting
Waiting for your spouse to change first
Bottling up your feelings to keep the peace
We know because we’ve been there and we’ve worked with men just like you.
The reality is, most men inherit a dysfunctional approach to relationships.
We pick up patterns, expectations, and cultural messages that leave us underprepared for the real challenges of marriage.
Research shows that marriages where couples don’t seek outside guidance or support have a significantly lower success rate, with nearly half ending in divorce or long-term dissatisfaction.
It's time for the tough love approach.
Tough Love isn’t about being harsh or withholding. It’s about holding yourself and your relationship to a higher standard one built on resilience, dignity, and growth.
The Foundational Formula:
Vulnerability + Perseverance + Grace = Resilience
You CAN find the love and repair your relationship. We’ll help you do it.
Meet Your Guides
Ryan & Luke
Founders of Tough Love for Men
We’re Luke and Ryan, and together we created Tough Love for Men. Between us, we have over 20 years of experience coaching men through the trials and tribulations of marriage, helping them overcome obstacles they once thought were impossible.
Our approach is tough love but not the kind that tells you to suppress your feelings.
We call you in, hold you accountable, and guide you to face your challenges head-on. Because we know that with the support of a powerful group of men on the same journey, you can achieve far more in your marriage than you could alone.
What's Inside the Course..
The Journey Starts Here!
The 6 Hard Truths No One Told You About Relationship
Learn The True Nature of Tough Love
Essential Tough Love Practices
True Tough Love Stories
Take the Tough Love Course
When you get the Tough Love Course, you get instant access to:
Full video course curriculum
Real stories, practical principles, and exercises to apply immediately
Guided Meditations
Lifetime access
Frequently asked questions
My relationship feels like it’s barely hanging on. Will this course help?
The Tough Love Course is built for the hardest moments. When you’re questioning if it’s worth it. You’ll learn how to face truth, with compassion, clarity, and courage.
How long will I have access to the course?
The Tough Love Course is a self-paced journey with lifetime access.
What if I want 1:1 support?
You don’t have to do this alone. This program includes guidance and community, so you’re not walking the path solo.
If you’re ready for more personalized support, we offer 1:1 coaching and counseling options tailored to your situation. You can choose to work with us individually to strengthen your personal foundation, or as a couple to rebuild trust and connection together. Our sessions provide a safe, guided space to apply the principles of Tough Love directly to your relationship.
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Relationship Resilience Starts Here
Relationships are the hardest and most important place where we grow as men. When you choose Tough Love, you choose to fight for love with honesty, courage, and dignity.
Your love is worth it. You are worth it.